Getting it right

Don't put her on a pedestal, where she usually sits with other men. If you do give her a minimal compliment, follow up with something off-putting. Tell her, for example, that she's wearing a nice dress, but that your sister has the same one. This says she has good fashion style, but that she's not entirely original.

Tell her she's not up to your standards
Tell her you'd like to ask her out, but she's just not up to your usual standards (watch her jaw hit the floor). If you really want to throw her, steal her thunder and tell her that you think you should be just friends.

Wait a little while to call her
If you get her phone number, wait at least a week to call her -- and then tell her you'll try to fit a date with her into your schedule.learning to read a womans body language

Keep it simple

Talk about her interests & passions
Stimulate her mind, as other guys probably don't. Show interest in her intellect and make her comfortable. Play on your good aspects and not your looks -- but don't lie to impress her.learning to read a womans body language